By Shelly-Ann Weeks
Let’s be real: menstruation has long been treated like a “girls-only” topic, whispered about behind closed doors or hidden in shame. But it’s 2025, and it’s time we change the narrative.
If we truly want to eliminate period stigma, empower girls, and create a more compassionate and informed society, then we must include boys in period education.
Yes, boys.
Periods Affect Everyone
While only people with a uterus experience menstruation, the impact of periods goes far beyond biology. Girls miss school, women miss work, relationships suffer, and policies are written—often by men—with little to no understanding of the physical, emotional, or financial impact of menstruation.
By excluding boys from period education, we:
- Reinforce shame and secrecy
- Perpetuate harmful stereotypes
- Miss a valuable opportunity to build empathy and understanding
What Happens When Boys Learn About Periods?
When boys are educated about periods in age-appropriate and respectful ways, amazing things happen:
1. They Become Better Supporters
Imagine a teenage boy who understands that his sister’s mood swings aren’t “being dramatic”—they’re hormonal shifts. Or a husband who buys his partner pads without shame. That’s what support looks like.
2. They Challenge Period Stigma
In many cultures, boys are socialized to mock periods or view them as “gross.” But when they understand what menstruation really is, they’re more likely to stand up for girls who are being teased and help normalize conversations.
3. They Grow Into Informed Men
Today’s boys are tomorrow’s partners, fathers, employers, educators, and leaders. If they learn early that menstruation is natural, manageable, and nothing to be ashamed of, they’ll make better decisions that benefit everyone.
What We’re Doing at HerFlow
At HerFlow Foundation, we believe menstrual equity is a community responsibility. That’s why we design our programs to be inclusive of boys and young men.
In our school tours and workshops, we invite boys to learn alongside girls. We create safe spaces where they can ask questions without fear of embarrassment, and we equip them to become allies.
It’s not just about pads and periods—it’s about building a culture of respect, empathy, and dignity for all.
Let’s Stop Leaving Boys Out
Period education shouldn’t end at the bathroom door. Boys deserve to learn about the realities of the people they care about. When we teach them, we don’t just educate—we empower.
So let’s talk to our sons, our brothers, our students, and our partners. Let’s raise boys who understand, support, and uplift.
Because when boys understand periods, everyone wins.
💌 Have questions or thoughts about including boys in period education? Want to share your story or learn how to bring this message to your school or community?
Send me an email at shellyannweeks@gmail.com — I’d love to hear from you.
With purpose and passion,
Shelly-Ann Weeks
Menstrual Health Advocate | Executive Director, HerFlow Foundation
